Traveling and Dating in the New World
Travel has its own new form of ins and outs. People are not only aligned to looking for experiences and memories on the places but also on the people who they met along the way while traveling. Some have it good and some have it bad. Traveling and dating come close especially when you are alone and in constant seeking for companionship.
Some people couldn’t find the companionship they long for in the ground where they grew up, where they call home. What happens next is they go to places far from where they used to be to seek for another person with a different interest and life perspective, whilst trying to enjoy what nature and the destination has to offer. It’s not a new thing, traveling and dating, but now is just an upgraded version of what dating appears to have been from the old time.
Dating Apps and Traveling
Nowadays, there are a number of dating apps that are being used by travelers who still haven’t found the person who could bring them the spark they are looking for. It is easily accessible by anyone even those who are already in a relationship. There’s also the number of sex dating site you can try online aside from the apps. Just one registration and you are off to dating anyone you would like.
In this generation, you would easily know when someone is not just that into you. Take a look at their phone and see if they still have these ‘dating apps’. If you happen to find one still installed and active, then this person is still on the lookout for someone to share his life with for a long time. That basically means you are not his or her final choice yet.
Traveling can be a great way to find what you are looking for. To find yourself, to find someone who you could spend the rest of life with, to find people who can become one of your best buddies, to find the person who you want to bear your child to but just don’t try to get involved with a marital affair because for a number of reasons you wouldn’t wanna experience.
Traveling with a Purpose
Does it ever occur to you to ask yourself for what purpose are you traveling? Is it because you want to show off t anyone? Is it because you want to push yourself to your boundaries? Is it because you wanted to leave the place you are so used to? Is it because you want to find yourself again from being lost? Is it because you want to find someone you would want to spend the rest of your life with?
No matter what the purpose you have for traveling, or what excuse you have to travel, just keep on doing it. If it’s what you love, no one can take it away from you. It’s your right, it’s your prerogative, it’s what you want. Nobody should dictate what you want to do.
Most people just wanted to get away with anything back home. Because being back home haunts you with many responsibilities. The bills, the rent, your toxic friends, and many more you couldn’t fathom to live with every day. Some also are on their gap year and want to live fully before going to a university. Again, traveling is everyone’s choice.
Traveling while Dating and Thinking of the Future
Once one person found another one with the same purpose or their minds have clicked and intertwined, then it’s another time to make another choice. Is this person worth all the travel you made? Is this person worth the distance? Will your relationship work when you are away?
You have already established a friendship and a relationship. You have already established another mindset. It’s time for you to establish another goal and take it as a way to your future. Establish a future that you are not only traveling because you wanted sex with some people for the experience but a future that you will never travel alone now because you have found the person you are looking for.
This person who you have established a relationship with will be the one to look after you, care for you, adore you, and love you for the rest of your life. Traveling with this one person makes every experience complete even when the rest of your itinerary did not go as planned. This one person who changed you will be the last person you would want to see before you sleep, every day. So choose the one you can settle your life with and live and love as if you have never loved before.